Ryna Qaryna

Ryna Qaryna

Ola.. This is me.. Ryna..

Ola.. This is me.. Ryna..

Quotes...

"It's beauty that captures your attention; personality which captures your heart."

WHO AM I…?

· Name: Ryna HSHMH · D.O.B: 19 May · Height: 162cm · Profession (Full-Time): Public Relation · Profession (Part-Time): Para-Counsellor · Hobbies: Shopping, Travelling, Cooking, Singing and Internet Surfing · Sports: tennis, badminton, body combat, latino aerobics, cycling · Favourite Food: Sambal Pusu and spaghetti · Favourite Drinks: Ice Blended Mocha and Frappacino Mocha

The Dragon Personality...

.. Dragons have magnetic, persuasive personalities and are capable of great success or spectacular failure. Normally, however, whatever they set their hearts on doing, they do well; the secret is their great faith in themselves. On the negative side, dragons are renowned for not finishing what they start. The frank and open way in which they approach people and situations can be disconcerting; but their innate sincerity and enthusiasm make up for this..

Wood-Fire Dragon...

... Potentially a highly combustible combination of fire and wood, fire dragons are actually warm-hearted and honest. They are temperamental and have no patience at all. Ambitious and proud, fire dragons tend to be authoritarian. They are perfectionists and will be highly critical if someone does not have the same standards or even opinions as them. All dragons are charismatic, fire dragons are inspirational - many are famous or infamous people...

Compatibility with Dragon...

Highly Compatible - Rat, Monkey, Tiger; Amicable - Pig; No Conflict but needs some effort - Rooster, Horse; Lack of Sympathy - Dragon, Rabbit, Goat; Antagonistic - Ox, Dog;

Secret Taurus...

.. Inside anyone who has strong Taurus influences is a person who takes the long-term view and proceeds slowly but surely, because Taurus is only interested in the very best of everything. Taurus loves to luxuriate in sensual delights and desires secure material prosperity. The two secret fears of Taurus are of being disturbed or of being left wanting. Taurus will wait for anything, even to get angry. When Taureans do eventually have to express anger, it can be devastating and is so disturbing to themselves that it takes a while for them to recover both their composure and their self-esteem..

Secret Dragon...

... Despite their impressive appearance, deep down dragons are dissatisfied and discontent. The dragon's tireless search for excitement is not always fruitful. They need to be embarking on some new project, campaign or love affair to feel truly alive. Inevitably, depression caused by the unavoidable daily routine will get most dragons down at some time...

Taurus and Love...

To Taurus, love is a physical, sensual romance which can be expected to last for ever. Taureans are attracted to physical beauty and are very sensitive to perfume, colour, light and sound... Behaviour when in love: The typical Taurus is devoted and steadfast, settles quickly into a stable affair, loves glamour, is extremely vulnerable to people who accept her affection byt only want a flirtation, will never forgive a betrayal... Expectations: The typical Taurus expects her man to be all male, a promise to be kept and never broken, a wholesome, natural approach to physical love, to be pampered, and to wait for a commitment to be made...

Dragon in Love...

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..Dragons are never short of admirers and never suffer from unrequired love. They are passionate but never blinded by this. Dragons are very self-reliant and know that they could live without their partner. Although they are often loved, dragons fall in love rarely. Once in love, dragons are very loyal and loving. In fact, their partners are put on pedestals. If a dragon discovers that her partner is unworthy of their devotion, the dragon will be hurt and soon end the relationship. Otherwise, it is difficult to break a dragon's heart because first you have to damage their invulnerable egos...

Best Way To Turn On Taurus...

"...There's nothing Taurus enjoys more than having their neck kissed and their earlobes nibbled. Light, feathery caresses up and down the neck followed by gentle licks, no biting, will make a female writhe with delight..."

Taurus and Sex...

"...Taureans are ahead of the game when it comes to love coz they are ruled by VENUS, the planet of Love! Taurus has all the qualities a lover desires, including sensuality, loyalty and faithfulness... When a typical Taurus makes love, it's the most physical and natural pleasure in the world. Sex is never a power game for Taurean, it is something very natural to be enjoyed. Taureans, especially females, are sometimes embarrased about their bodies if they feel they are being criticised. On the whole, Taurus regards nudity as natural and wholesome... They believe the romantic approach to sex ...They don't like to rush things and take everything, including sex, slowly..."

Dragon and Sex...

... Sex is very important for dragons. They often embark on amorous adventures at an early age, and see sexual expression as the key to their personal freedom. This is not necessarily a good thing for dragon bed-partners because dragons have a tendency to view their lovers as instruments to bring about their great escape and not as individuals. Nevertheless, whatever dragons do, they perform well. They are not selfish or unimaginative lovers, just a bit impersonal maybe. Dragons in love will lavish affection on their partner and will do anything to please them...

Sunday, 5 August 2007

Rindu



Fikiran ku melayang-layang..
Semenjak ketemu dengan mu..
Hati ku berdebar-debar..
Ketika dalam kehadiran mu..
Cumbuan mu yang penuh kasih sayang..
Membuat ku tidak sabar..
Menanti akan waktu kita ketemu lagi..

Adakah aku dilamun cinta..

Sehingga merasa kosong tanpa mu di sisi..
Aku semakin merindui mu sayang..
namun ku akan setia menanti..
Sampai bilakah kita akan begini..
Persoalan yang masih menjadi teka teki..
Tetapi satu kepastian ialah kau seorang sahaja yang bertahta dihati..

Tuesday, 26 June 2007

MY LOVE

A suitable life partner is what all women hope and pursue

And a fairy tale handsome prince is usually how it starts

A tall, loving, suave and romantic prince charming

Is what we dream of..

But time has the magic

To alter that pursuit or conquest

And time can truly reveal the true love

Of the person we are bound to marry..

My love, my husband was my closest friend

He started off as my confidant and listener

Who was always there to be a real friend to me

He’s the only one who was able to calm me in time of troubles

From friendship, feeling of love blossomed

It was never planned nor expected

It just happened

Like nature taking its course

But how do I know he’s my true love?

I know because my feelings for him

Bear witness to the authenticity

Of our love being true and real..

I know he’s the one because..

Every time he’s beside me I would feel at ease

Whenever he’s away, I would feel empty

As if a part of me is missing..

When he smiles, I couldn’t resist but smile along

When he’s troubled, my heart would be in a knot

And I want to do whatever I can to ease his worries

And see the smile back on his face..

When we fight, the hearts experience chaos..

But we never fight for long..

We don’t scream or hit each other..

We rationalize.. or most of the time we just keep quiet..

The way we live together

Shows how we suit one another..

Life may have its ups and downs

But it’s d getting up bit that’s important..

My love, my husband..

He’s the right man for me..

And I’m the right lady for him..

And may God bless us to be together for as long time permits..

Thursday, 21 June 2007

Love and Beauty..



What is beauty to a person..
Is it flawless skin, cute nose, sexy lips and beckoning eyes..
Is it a shapely figure that some would even die for..
Is it solely the appearance of someone..
Or is there more...

To the close minded, beauty is simple..
It is merely what's pleasant to see...
What's nice to touch and feel...
What's nice be seen with...
What's nice to possess...

But are those the qualities of true beauty..??

Beauty most of us see as something on the exterior..
But true beauty, is more on what's within...
But to see it, we have to use not our eyes but our heart..
True beauty cannot be seen, it can only be felt..
A feeling so in depth that not many may be able to experience it..

So who are the lucky ones to see actual and true beauty...??

Those in love...
Regardless of your sizes, race, appearance or any differences..
The feeling of being in love enables one to see deeper into the soul..
These people see true beauty through their hearts..
And eventually to the very soul..

When we're in love, we see the real person..
Not the physical appearance, but the inner soul..
It is there where true beauty prevails..
It is there where love flourishes..
It is there where soulmates meet...

To experience this may be deemed fairy tales..
But, for some it has already become a reality..
Love is everywhere...
But what we want is lasting love..
And where we find lasting love, we find true beauty..




Wednesday, 20 June 2007

My Daughters




Motherhood
Shock, excitement, nerves and wonder
Sleeplessness ensues, my mind wanders...

Opportunity to nurture a life so precious, a great responsibility, can I be a success?

Will I be a good mother, someone I am proud to be?
Will I show them the complete, unselfish love that every child needs?

Giving life, a TRUE labor of love
My babies are born, two daughters are now here
A love is also born, so consuming and near

Almost suffocating, an overwhelming feeling surrounds me
Tears fill my eyes, I hold them so tightly

My love for my daughters, so grand and great
I succumb to my fear, my daughters can't wait

A Special World


A special world for you and me
A special bond one cannot see
It wraps us up in its cocoon
And holds us fiercely in its womb.

Its fingers spread like fine spun gold
Gently nestling us to the fold
Like silken thread it holds us fast
Bonds like this are meant to last.

And though at times a thread may break
A new one forms in its wake
To bind us closer and keep us strong
In a special world, where we belong.

- Sheelagh Lennon -

Poetry: The Walls of Depression..



You built these walls around you
To try to encage yourself
Turning your back on the world
Forever refusing all help

Your fears they surrounded you
Devoured all your soul
Left you broken into pieces
Impossible to be made whole

Your tears they became rivers
Until they drowned your body
And you just let yourself lie
Dying in your own folly

The depression it destroyed you
Left you empty and closed off
Until all memories of us
You simply forgot

Every night I came to your prison
Trying to get you free
Trying to reach you
But you no longer saw me

You closed your mind and body
Let your heart just freeze
Watched me outside the bars
Begging you not to please

I constantly tried and failed
Your empty eyes they watched
It broke my heart to see you
I prayed for it to stop

So I come tonight once again
But not to set you free
I come to say goodbye
But you can’t even hear me

I cry as I watch you
But I have to turn away
Long gone are the days
In your arms I would stay

When I leave you I’m empty
Completely closed myself off
All the pain and memories
Like you I’ve forgot

I create walls around me
To keep everything away
I make my heart go cold
So I no longer feel the old way

I become what you are
What I once did fear
No emotion escapes me
Not even a single tear

I don’t think I'll ever understand
Just what happened to us
How did two so happy and free
become closed off and unloved?

Now these bars surround us
Behind them we die
They keep in our dark secrets
We recoil inside

They lock all our emotions
Then throw away the key
The world outside aches for us
But the bars don’t let us see

We build them to get away
Thinking there we will rest
But these bars slowly kill us
They’re just cages for the depressed

We’ll rot in these cells we’ve made
We’ll tie up ourselves in chains
Becauce the reason we’re behind these bars
Is because inside we’ve gone insane

Thursday, 7 June 2007

Matter of the Heart..

Communication in a relationship is very important. It is not only to strengthen the bond but at the same time to deepen mutual understanding. I've had valuable exposure to friends who have exprienced commincation barrier in their relationship, specifically in a marriage.
Personally, I've always made it a point to always be open with my partner. And I hope that he's always been open with me. But no matter how much we want our partner to open up to us, there will be times when we deem it necessary not to reveal too much to our partner. But the strange thing is, some of us find it easier to share our thoughts and concern with close friends.
But why is this?
In my opinion, there are several factors why couples do not always reveal every little detail to their partners but rather prefer to share their thoughts and concerns with close friends. The possible factors in influencing this are:
  • Do not wish to burden the partner with that particular information
  • Do not wish to hurt the feelings of the partner
  • Do not wish to be seen possessing any weaknesses
  • Felt no obligation telling a friend as opposed to a partner
  • Unable to change habit of not sharing with partner

Of course, there are many other factors or attributes what have the potential to influence this behaviour. But it is the methods on how best to ensure effective communication that couples should be interested in.

For couples who are facing problems in communicating and sharing their inner most feelings with their partners, this is not uncommon. To resolve it, couples need to take the initiative to actually make space and find time to sit down with their partners and actually talk. Not empty talk. But heart to heart talk. It may feel awkward for couples who have never done it before. But once we find the pace and comfort zone doing this particular exercise, it will definitely make a difference in the couples' lives together.

There is nothing wrong in sharing our thoughts with our loved ones. There is nothing wrong in making mistakes and admitting it. But it would be wrong to shut out your loved ones from the reality of your lives. So give it a try. Have a heart to heart talk. Make sure the environment is suitable. Remember "it takes two to tango". This can only work if both sides are willing to play it.